How to Make Your San Diego Courthouse Elopement Feel Special

Why Choose a San Diego Courthouse Elopement?

Courthouse weddings are a beautiful option for couples who want an intimate, stress-free way to say “I do.” Whether you’re drawn to the simplicity, the affordability, or the idea of keeping your wedding day focused on just you two without planning a big production, a courthouse ceremony can be just as meaningful as a larger wedding or destination elopement.

One common misconception is that courthouse weddings feel boring or impersonal. But in my experience, they can be some of the most intentional, joy-filled celebrations. It’s one of the reasons why I love documenting them so much. Without the stress of planning a big event, you get to focus on your person and have total freedom to customize your wedding day.

How to Make a Courthouse Wedding Feel Special

Just because you’re skipping the big venue doesn’t mean you have to miss out on special details! Here are some simple ways to make your courthouse wedding uniquely yours:

• Personalize Your Vows – Even if the ceremony itself is short, you can write your own vows to make the moment personal. You don’t have to say the vows in front of the officiant! Some couples choose to do private vows beforehand – just the two of them.
• Dress Up for the Occasion – Whether it’s a chic suit, a stylish dress, or something completely unique, wearing something that makes you feel amazing definitely helps create that special atmosphere. You can also of course choose to get hair, makeup, and/or nails done!
• Bring a Photographer – I’m biased… obviously. You deserve beautiful photos that capture the moment you say “I do.” A courthouse wedding can be just as photogenic as any other setting, especially with all of the great options in San Diego.
• Choose Meaningful Witnesses – You can invite close friends or family members to be part of your ceremony. If it’s just the two of you, I’d be honored to be your witness and have done this before!
• Make It a Full-Day Celebration – Just because the ceremony is short doesn’t mean the celebration has to be! Plan a favorite activity together, like a fancy dinner, a beachside picnic, or a weekend getaway.

Ways to Add Personal Touches

A courthouse wedding can be as unique as you make it! Small details can transform the experience into something beyond only the ceremony:

• Bring a Bouquet and/or Boutonniere – Fresh flowers add a special touch and look gorgeous in photos.
• Have a First Look – Seeing each other before the ceremony adds an emotional, intimate moment to your day.
• Plan a Post-Ceremony Celebration – Whether it’s a picnic, brunch, or a dinner party, celebrating after the ceremony makes the day feel complete.
• Incorporate Meaningful Traditions – Whether it’s exchanging love letters, having a cultural or religious tradition, or bringing along a special heirloom, these little details make a difference.

Where to Celebrate After Your San Diego Courthouse Elopement

Once you’ve tied the knot, celebrations are definitely in order! Here are some ideas for making the most of your wedding day:

• Book a Romantic Dinner – San Diego has incredible restaurants perfect for a wedding-day dinner. I’m happy to share my recommendations depending on your fave foods and vibe!
• Plan a Weekend Getaway – Turn your wedding into a mini honeymoon by staying somewhere special:
  • Murrieta or Jacumba Hot Springs – Relax and unwind together in a cozy hot spring retreat.
  • Europa at Temecula – Enjoy a wine country escape with a romantic vineyard stay. I love this hotel and stayed here (as a surprise) after my wife proposed.
  • A Mountain Getaway – Cozy up in a quiet lodge like Quiet Mind Retreat near Julian. This spot is so nice if you’re looking for a calm place to stargaze and soak in the hot tub.

Parting thoughts…

No matter where or how you get married, your wedding day should feel special (because it is). A courthouse wedding is all about stripping away the unnecessary stress and focusing on what matters most. Whether it’s a simple ceremony followed by a romantic dinner or a full-day adventure, make your wedding uniquely yours.

If you’re planning a courthouse wedding and want someone to capture the love and joy of your day, I’d love to be there. Let’s make magic together!